We had our Sunday Introduction to Meditation Class at Yoga Bliss. We practiced a guided meditation called Befriending Your Body from The Buddha’s Brain: the Practical Neuroscience of Happiness, Love and Wisdom. Neuropsychologist, author and instructor, Rick Hanson, suggests this practice to help build the neural circuitry of self compassion.
Rick observes how we commonly push our bodies and ignore their needs until they get intense. We get disappointed, frustrated, impatient or even hostile toward our bodies. As if aging, illness and perceived imperfections were a matter of choice. He warns of the big price we pay for these attitudes and behaviors since we’re not separate from our bodies. Their needs and pleasures are our own. He suggests that if we treat our bodies like good friends, we’ll feel better, have more energy, be more resilient and probably live longer. Why live longer? This is a question you’ve probably considered more deeply after experiencing a serious illness or the loss of a loved one. I find motivational energy in this question. It gives me a willingness to explore the mystery of life beyond the limiting attitudes of my fixed beliefs.
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