Being and Becoming

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class met this morning.  We explored the ways we meet life transitions.  Mindfulness can help us to create time and space in which to be with life’s difficult and joyful moments.  We can meet them as an expression of the many of causes and conditions of which we are inextricably entangled.  This space of loving awareness can help us to bring “care and conscious attention” to ourselves and those around us.

This week’s meditation was greatly inspired by the talk Edoardo Eusepi’s gave to Upaya Zen Center’s community: Taking Time to Transition.  Edoardo, formerly a resident monk, shared the transitions he experienced during the life he shared with his long time canine-companion, Hercules.  He shared how the years of Zen training helped him during the difficult transition of Hercules’ illness and death.  I resonate with his encouragement to “take care of yourself, be gentle with yourself and others undergoing a transition.” You can hear Edoardo’s talk at this link to the Upaya Zen Center podcast episode.

We also heard from James Bridle’s book, Ways of Being.  The book is “a brilliant, searching exploration of different kinds of intelligence – plant, animal, human, artificial – and how they transform our understanding of humans’ place in the cosmos.”  This wonderful book encourages us to embrace the more than human world and meet it with the open minded, open hearted curiosity of a beginner. You can hear James discuss their book with Krista Tippett in the On Being interview, The Intelligence Is Singing All Around Us.

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Who We Help Along the Way

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class met this morning.  We explored how we can offer caring and support to others on the path.  We were inspired by the example of trail angels – the may folks who offer aid to through hikers.  With mindfulness, we can “leave the light on” in our hearts and homes.  We are all travelers in one way or another.  We follow the trails blazed by others and create new paths for others to follow.  We can share guidance, inspiration and the wisdom of experience.  We can live life as a gift.   .

Today’s practice was greatly inspired by Greta Matos’ Grateful Living essay, The Privilege of Sharing Abundance. Greta describes the deep joy of being a “trail angel.” She shares the joy of helping two women who walked 20,000 miles across the Americas. They were on the trail for two years and expected it would take them five years to walk from the southern tip of South America to the northern tip of North America.

As a young person, Greta spent many hours gentling and rehabilitating traumatized horses.  She considers herself to be a horse listener.  She later went for a very long walk along the Appalachian Trail:  2,180 miles from Maine to Georgia.  She was blessed by the kindness of strangers along the way.  It restored her faith in humanity. Eventually she moved to Chile where she became involved with the restoration and re-wilding of 1,200 acres of old growth native forests.  She and her husband spent four months riding horses over 600 miles across Patagonia. They now offer horse-led expeditions involving horse communication and body-based experiences to develop mindfulness and build awareness of the interconnectedness between humans and the environments around us.

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The Breath As Our Companion

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class met this morning.  We continued exploring life as a sacred journey.  Today our breath was our companion and guide.  We explored oscillating patterns of breathing and movement.  The underwater world of seaweed was a metaphor for how we can remain rooted and also give ourselves over to undulation, flow and a deep sense of allowing – even that which is painful.  In saying yes to life we value and revere the lives we’ve loved and lost.

This week’s meditation was greatly inspired by Valerie Brown’s Kosmos Journal essay, Hope Leans Forward | The Body as Grounded Wisdom,  The essay was reprinted from Valerie’s book, Hope Leans Forward:  Braving Your Way Toward Simplicity, Awakening and Peace. Valerie is a meditation teacher ordained in the order of Thich Nhat Hanh.   She leads an annual pilgrimage to El Camino de Santiago, Spain to celebrate the power of sacred place.  You can find her essays, guided meditations and videos on her web-site. Valerie Brown studied Donna Farhi’s teaching on how to free the breath and the mind.

We also heard insights from meditation and yoga instructor, Donna Farsi. Her Yoga International article How Breath Awareness Will Change Your Life. Donna has been teaching yoga informed movement for over forty years.  She is author of several books including the Breathing Book.  This essay is a beautiful example of her skill in bringing meditation and movement together.  Valerie Brown studied Donna’s teaching on how to free the breath and the mind.

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Find the Place That Hasn’t Been Wounded

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class tried to meet this morning. Unfortunately my internet connectivity failed.  Ironically, today’s class focused on ways our mindfulness practice can help us to live with uncertainty.  I am finding this more and more important as a number of my friends and family members are experiencing health challenges.  I’ve been struggling with the impulse to control situations.  I want to do something to fix that which is a difficult and natural part of life.  Trusting my own loving awareness helps me to accept what I can’t control.  Practicing loving kindness – to include myself as well as others – helps me to find inner peace and rest.

We drew guidance from Kristi Nelson’s Grateful Living essay, Deepening Our Comfort with Uncertainty. Kristi suggests trusting life can help us to find a wider perspective in our relationship to the unknown.  She shares a lovely “self-care” practice she uses to ease into the solace of sleep.  What a beautiful way to transform a tormenting mind into an ally in well-being. Kristi Is author of Wake Up Grateful.  She was Ambassador for Grateful Living and Executive Director from 2014 – 2022.  You can find many of her essays and talks at her Grateful Living page.

We were inspired by poet philosopher John O’Donohue’s words about our wholeness.  He made his observations in the Inner Landscape of Beauty, a conversation with Krista Tippett.  It was one of the last interviews he gave before his unexpected death in 2008. He suggests that we all have a place inside that has not been wounded.  After sitting with this idea for a while it began to make sense.   John counsels that we rest in the inner sanctuary of our wholeness.  I think he may have been referring to the soul. For me, this dimension of being is loving awareness.

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Our Sacred Journey

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class met this morning. We cultivated wonder and gratefulness. We imagined living our lives as a sacred pilgrimage.  We considered what our inner compass would look like:  how we might navigate the rest of our days with intention, letting go of what we no longer need and letting in the guidance and resources we will need to make the journey.  A pilgrimage often involves solitude and silence, contemplative states that enable us to hear our hearts speak.  May our heart’s wisdom can support us through the sorrows and wonders along the path.

We drew inspiration from Grateful Living’s Live Your Life As a Sacred Pilgrimage: A 5-Day Practice.   The program is a gratefulness practice that offers a guided pilgrimage of the heart.

We heard John O’Donohue’s poem, For the Traveler. The poem is an encouragement and a blessing.  When we travel we experience a new aloneness and a new silence.  In the silence we can hear our heart speak.   We are encouraged to venture into the unknown and to allow ourselves to be changed by the experience.  He blesses us with a homecoming in which we will live our lives to the fullest.

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How Life Is Held Together

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class met this morning. We cultivated wonder and gratefulness.  We practiced mindfulness and explored Anu Gupta’s encouragement to be mindful of everyday wonder.  We practiced mindfulness and appreciation for the body.  We reflected on the human and more-than-human ancestors that create the causes and conditions that made our lives possible.

We drew inspiration from poet and author Mark Nepo’s beautiful essay, The One Life We Are Given.  He experiences finding heart wisdom while caring  for his dying father. This wisdom arises when we recognize the preciousness and wonder of life.  He urges readers to cultivate wonder by affirming the “unseeable thread” that holds all life together. 

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Reading Each Other

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class met this morning.  We explored perspective taking as a way of practicing radical compassion.  Our intention was to truly be present with a marginalized person, a person subject to stereotyping. Imagining the rich complexity of their lives helps to connect with the wholeness of their lives and our shared humanity.

We practiced mindfulness and explored Anu Gupta’s perspective taking practice.   We thought of a marginalized person subject to stereo-typing.  We imagined their life’s journey from the time of their birth, through their life’s transitional moments, to the dreams and aspirations they held for themselves. Our intention was to appreciate the wholeness of their humanity.

We drew inspiration from writer Richard Powers, author of many books including the Pulitzer prize winning book, The Overstory.  In his magical interview with Sam Fragoso on the Talk Easy program, Richard shared some of his ideas about the qualities we cultivate when reading a novel: stillness, focus, concentration, presence, empathy and compassion.  Reading is an exercise of imagination.  We are alone and also inside an unknown person’s life as we follow their story.  This is also what we bring to the practice of perspective taking, when we imagine the life story of another.

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Imagining Ourselves Anew

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class met this morning.  We continued the practice of building beloved community by exploring the pain of bias.  We used our imagination as an ally to help look beneath the surface of others.  We cultivated empathy and offered loving kindness to ourselves and others.  This is something we can practice informally as we go about our day.  We can slow down, pause and imagine the wholeness of a person we may see behind the wheel, mowing their lawn, shopping for groceries.  We can wish them well.

We practiced mindfulness and explored Anu Gupta’s loving kindness practice around the pain of bias.  This practice engages imagination to call people who have experienced the pain of bias into our hearts.  We visualize and sense their presence and the goodwill and love we share for one another.  In this way our individual separate practice becomes relational in a sense.  We cultivate prosocial qualities that can incline our minds toward beloved community.

We drew insight from Zen teacher and poet Norman Fischer.  His fascinating Tricycle Magazine article, Saved from Freezing, is an exploration of how our imagination can be our ally in experiencing life beyond the limitations of the beliefs, ideas, assumptions, even worries.

He gives examples of how music and poetry can transport us to a “different mind” that is more open to life.

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Mindfulness, Identity and Humanity

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class met this morning.  We continued the practice of building beloved community.  We considered how identity enables us to flourish and how it can also divide us.  We explored Anu Gupta’s Individuation inquiry in which we imagined being subject to bias – someone’s mistake beliefs about who are.  We also imagined the counterposing experience of being recognized as who we really are. I hope these inquiries will help us to be more mindful and present with one another and ourselves.

We drew inspiration from Sharon Salzberg’s conversation with Dr. Simran Jeet Singh. Simran is the Executive Director of the Inclusive  America Project.  We also drew from his book, The Light We Give. This book is part memoir, spiritual journey and a call for greater acceptance and love.

We practiced mindfulness and explored Anu Gupta’s Individuation exercise.  This inquiry recreates the experience of being subject to stereotyping and then imagining the experience of being truly recognized without bias.

We heard the prosaic lines of Omid Safi’s On Being essay, May We Cherish a Love That Is Raw, Gritty and Real.  Omid is a professor of Islamic Studies specializing in mysticism and the liberationist traditions of Dr. Martin Luther King among others. He teaches in the Sufi tradition of Radical love.

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Brave and Caring Space

The Columbia City Yoga on-line Moving into Meditation class met this morning.  We continued the practice of building beloved community.  We brought mindful inquiry to the human habit of stereotyping.  We often make assumptions about others.  We don’t often know what difficulties a person might be carrying.  The practice of awareness and intention, presence and persistence, can help us to think and feel beyond our assumptions to recognize a person’s humanity.  Love inspired short moments many times can move us toward beloved community.

We drew inspiration from Iranian American playwright Sanaz Toossi.  Her play, English, won this year’s Pulitzer Prize for Drama.  It portrays the difficulties faced by immigrants.  It explores how we construct and adapt identity considering complexities including: sex, ethnicity, nationality, age, socioeconomic status and language.  As a first generation English speaker it reminded me of my immigrant mother and grandmother.  I feel so much empathy for the struggles to communicate and to be recognized.

We heard Micky Scottbey Jones’ inspirational poem: Invitation to Brave Space:  The poem is an invitation to “call each other to more truth and love.”

Our mindfulness inquiry was based on Anu Gupta’s inspiring Breaking Bias work.  He explains that stereotype replacement involves “a conscious act of replacing our mind’s habit to stereotype another human being with positive real life counter examples.”  We borrowed his teaching to help reveal implicit bias and then practice imagining another person’s full humanity.

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