The Yogabliss, Your Heart Life on-line Moving into Meditation classes met this morning. We explored how meditation offers us the experience of being alone together. We also reflected on how solitude offers us a chance to come to know ourselves more deeply. This intimacy can also help us to recognize our interconnection with all of life.
In learning to be alone we find belonging.
We drew from the tenth chapter of Kathleen Dowling Singh’s book, The Grace in Aging: Awaken As You Grow Older. In this section, Solitude: Liberation from Attachment, Release into Sufficiency, Kathleen encourages us “to transform loneliness to aloneness, far before the time of our death.” She explores the nature of loneliness and “chosen aloneness.” The solitude that we choose offers opportunities to recognize our ourselves as unique expressions of life. In solitude we can also realize ourselves as inter-beings arising from innumerable conditions and relationships.
We heard Padraig O Tuama’s beautiful poem, How to [Belong] Be Alone. Padraig is an Irish poet and theologian. He presents Poetry Unbound a program produced by On Being Studios. In his poem he explores the paradox of finding belonging in our aloneness. He invites us to live knowing we will die. He invites us to listen to that part of ourselves that tells the more vital story of our life. You can find a lovely animated version of the poem, “How to Be Alone,” on Youtube.